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Three things I value are 1) my health (physical & mental) 2) my wallet 3) my safety….if those things are kept in check my smile will be just that bit wider and that dougie on a Saturday night will flow just that bit more smoothly.Currently three things are trying to mess with my values:..ridiculous petrol prices, Arsene Wenger not signing any new defenders and finding a new job I worked so hard to be eligible for. Oh and a brother needs some loving too so the everlasting search for a good healthy relationship continues…Not that I’m actively looking but I’ve been pinpointing potentials and avoiding annoyances. Along the years I have picked up some useful knowledge and warning signs to look out for in people who represent the annoyances. If i stick with my first thing of importance to me “my health” I’m learning one particular type of woman is a no no…

The Over Emotional

I can’t date someone who is too emotional…its not for me! The baldness in men is not always down to nature. Contrary to legend probably linked to the abuse of S Curl in the 70′s and 80′s, perms are not the leading causes of male baldness. Nor does nature just says at 40 (21 in certain man) “hey, gimme that hair back in the middle and I’ll leave you some bum fluff on the sides”. Most baldness is the result of female induced stress (well for arguments sake) as that is what us men spend at least 60% of our time thinking about, alongside money.

One of the main sources in problems for men is over emotional partners who are either manically sad, happy, angry, jealous or insecure almost all the damn time. Energy is transferable and although it may be mighty sweet and considerate of you to take on all of someone else’s emotions its stressful. Ever had that friend that looks drained every time he comes off the phone whereas ten minutes ago he was bouncing around like a 10 year old? you ask him “what you on later?” and he replies “gonna go (insert Mrs)” in the most miserable voice; this is usually a victim and they’re probably being emotionally blackmailed, don’t believe me? ask him, he will drag on about it for hours. Wanting to do things alone or sometimes not wanting to talk should not be turned into “you don’t want to spend time with me”, “are you going off me?” or “who is she”. I dont like conversations where if I tell you Meagan Goode, GabrielIe Union etc are good looking after YOU asked me, then next week I suddenly make you feel fat and you have signed up to Fitness First. I have noticed these people like to exaggerate things and turn it all into a convo about “feelings”. A lot of these things are issues which I cannot help much with and predominately based on how you feel about you I can only do so much, I’ll let Kat speak.

There has been this rumour flying around (for hundreds of years) that women are emotional and men are logical, I like this rumour but it’s fair to say we’re all emotional we just use our emotions in different way….some men use theirs in a very different manner behind closed doors.

The Over Emotional Man

This man is not a myth he is a reality and from my extensive research with the opposite sex they do not tend go down well. I’m sure women love men who are not stone hearted and express themselves without saying “allow it that’s gay” but certain men are going too far with the emotions and need to lay off the milk; too much estrogen was not designed to be in one’s system. Its not cool to tell your girl she is out of your league and act like every man is a threat to you. Lets her go out and be with her friends, stop telling her she can’t wear that if it says what you think it says. If you don’t trust her to carry herself well why are you with her? Men who also need anger management are not the lick too ladies. I hear stupidness like “its passion, its sexy” and you like to see it. Just know passion can turn into domestic abuse in a hot second and black eyes aren’t all that sexy, so read the signs. The most passionate people are the most dangerous and there is a thin line between love and hate.

One woman I don’t need to be a rocket scientist to work out I dont need in my life although they make great “good time girls” are the following.

Materialistic Women

This woman should come with a warning sign, she breaks hearts and budgets and does not sign prenups. Everything that impresses her is expensive although her line is that she just “likes the best and have good taste” hmmmm yeah I’m going to stick with you like trends and glamour. Now if you’re making your own paper its all good but louboutins, diamonds and Gucci handbags (the real ones) aint cheap. If you earn a low wage, don’t do criminal activity or have had an inheritance at some point I’m going to stereotype you if you are kitted up like a Selfridges manikin. You have heard me talk about this before so i dont want to sound like a broken record. I’ll quote Yeezy and suggest u listen to this tune regularly because when I see these chicks its like the beat starts in my head and I start hearing the tune while shes walking in  slow motion Louis Vuitton swinging and ish “She don’t believe in shooting stars, but she believe in shoes and cars.

However as with the previous thing once materialism is not a thing only men should be concerned about.

Flashy Guys

Ladies if you are not, wealthy, materialistic or a gold digger I suggest that you try to avoid flashy men. I use the word flashy as its not to be judged off what he has, its how he flaunts it, I never said rich as that’s not their fault its a bonus, so do you sister. They will criticise your Primarni outfits, screw up their faces every time you enter H&M and tell you they will not be seen dead in your car if its more than 3 years old. They also will as with most flashy people judge do, school you on how you look to an unhealthy degree. These people usually like things because they like to be trendy and the most important things about fashion trends is that they are constantly changing. They probably like you because you look trendy on their arm like all their other possessions and you can very easily go out of fashion once summer comes around and the new range comes out. People who overly flaunt what they have should usually be avoided as they will usually annoy you unless of course you are the new breed Kim Kardashian idolising chick that lives for the glam, in that case go for it, do a few catwalks and become a hood celebrity.

Women with more than 2 baby fathers.

Im going to keep this short and sweet as I don’t want the single mother club putting out an APB on me. I’m just going to be real, as a man in my twenties I don’t really need to be a potential third baby father. I have to ask myself do I need to put myself in the middle of baby father drama x2? like one isn’t enough and how did she get in this position? This is something you should analyse well before getting into a situation like this. Maybe she is a beautiful person who has been mistreated by men, suffered bereavement or something just anything  to not make you get this scene playing in the back of your mind.

Men with several baby mothers

Women who cry he treated you bad or he cheated on you and then tell me he was ten years older than you with 2 kids in Jamaica and one in London and none of them are yours…slap yourself with a Key stage 3 book, any subject will do as there was no common sense lessons in school. This is a sad situation I find many women I know in and you just get the alarm bells ringing in your head when they explain it. You should ask yourselves the same questions like, “why does this guy not seem to stick it out?” and if he has two kids the same age erm maybe he might cheat on you.

Look out for the signs, prevention is better than cure, spread love not war and that’s all i gotta say about that.

Don Kwelu