Apologies to all readers for the delay in part 2, I really need to shake off this whole BPT. So in Part one “We Already Know” briefly highlighted the frequent categories men often put women in before usually executing their pursuit.

1. Wifey
2. Just Sex
3. Kudos
4. Unknown

I realise that there are a lot more other categories I didn’t mention however due to our simple minded nature the four outlined above are as deep as it gets for most guys; either you have the potential to be wifey, the greatest sex…or a good friend.

Now I hear a lot of apprehensive women especially during the get-to-know process brand men as “only after one thing, it isn’t the beauty it’s the booty” How true this statement is, for me is up for debate, however I do know a large amount of what we do whether we like to admit it or not is largely to do for the Ladies… Aml Ameen’s new teaser for short film The Code demonstrates this;  sitting in the barbers for 2 hours to get that perfect fade, doing a few more reps at the gym to elevate the upper body (whilst completely forgetting legs need gym work too), purchasing the nicely cut suit, dropping the roof of the coupe whilst the ray bans are on show. or even something as simple as the good job. The last may cause some to disagree and justify the need for a good job as just aspirations, I for one wouldn’t say that isn’t the case but when looking at the rewards of what comes along with a good job it’s fair to say women aren’t too far behind in his thought system. For the nature of the post I’ll keep it focus on what men are prepared to do in order to get the booty not the wifey.

The best way to really understand the lengths at which men are prepared to go for women, more importantly the booty, is understanding the various type of guys which exist.  It’s common knowledge that men have a tendency to portray themselves in a certain image; the players/wealthy folks out there have studied, passed and gained qualification in the concept that “it’s not about survival of the fittest however it’s the ability to adapt to a changing environment which will inadvertently create the path to success” . So this embodies the lengths at which a man can go in order to get the booty; by taking on the various characteristic’s in order to adapt to that of what he thinks she may want or need.

Followed below are the typical titles at which men are prepared to go

The Good Guy

This concept to me is by far the most deceptive and funniest however the good guy is a result of men believing women yearn for the ‘good’ due to popular belief that these guys don’t exist. Yes there are men who are prepared to go to lengths to prove that they are the good guy in order to create a comfort zone between the woman and himself….thus reducing her natural level of guard. Please note the good guy is by no means a sweet boy however plays on the grounds of being the good friend and excessiveness on the accommodation of nonsense that your regular guy wouldn’t usually take from the female counterpart. He fully accepts a lot of what he takes from the woman will hamper his pride however he takes pastures in the thought that the prize isn’t too far away.

It’s a funny concept as it somewhat border lines the Heskey role however goes for more the friend/comfort approach.

Constantly highlighting in conversations how much of a good guy he is, he plays largely on deficiencies she may have experienced or poses for example…he would solely focus on her as an entity making sure he is at one with her to gain a full understanding of what she stands for and against and anything she vocalises as wishes he aims to make come true. Now most of you like myself are probably dumbfounded by why a man would go to such lengths in order to get the booty but it’s one of the phenomenon’s which even me hasn’t the foggiest.

Frequent users: the best friend, the work mate or associate

The Baller

Largely influenced by the likes of Rick Ross and P Diddy and other rappers talking about splashing 100k in the clubs on drinks for a few of the women on patrol. Based on music videos this concept seems to have taken off as a role in which a man chooses to adopt. Please note most men who usually engage in such role aren’t usually straight in the manner in which they obtain their funds. A friend of mine told me of a situation where he was chatting to a PYT at a club, genuine with his conversation etc, then a guy walks past, chain hanging low etc and had two bottle of Aces of spades and offered the young lady a drink while she was in the middle of conversation, she responded “why not?”, he then suggested she come over to VIP as the rest of the bottle was there waiting for her ..Sadness

I didn’t bother ask the rest of the story as for me I found it quite funny men are prepared to stunt in order to get the booty, or even blow the last of their funds to create a image of a lifestyle which far exceeds that of which they are trying to create. I’m talking Audi A5 convertible stunting however still sharing a bunk bed with your younger brother at their mum’s house.

Frequent users: University students (student loans), 419 or dealer, the guy with more than 2 lines and the guy who usually lacks self confidence

The Heskey

If you don’t know him by noooow (you will never ever ever know him)

The one thing to note from the three roles outlined above is that when after the booty, a man will have an idea of what a woman likes or what he thinks she likes and tries to take advantage of the fact that he knows this in order for a quick hit and run.

Other roles that a man can adopt are that of the holy/righteous which is tailored towards the women embedded within the church/mosque. It’s common knowledge that women desire a level of comfort and although success isn’t a major requirement for some women it would be nice if he could provide that as well as the notion that he is embedded in religious belief thus creating the humbled and fearful characteristics.

The last thing to note is that as much as guys are prepared to go lengths in order to get the booty like most things which aren’t natural or real it’s very difficult to sustain and the good guy for example can actually end up gaining real feelings during the pursuit of the booty; so recognise that if you notice a sudden change in characteristics in comparison to that of when he was first engaging in conversation with yourself , its more than likely he was after the booty and as a result weren’t himself.

As from my experience when I’m genuinely interested I have no interest in role playing I try to keep it hundred so if he isn’t into you it’s the booty not the beauty.

Maverick